BFM

welcome

Birmingham Fetishmen

LEATHER | RUBBER | SPORTS | SKIN | ANIMAL & MORE

A place for men from Birmingham, the Midlands and the rest of the country to meet in their gear.

may bank holiday mayhem

May 4th 2024. 9.30pm until late

With Blanche & DJ Jord

About

We are an inclusive group of gear heads that hold social events for men, those who identify as men, transmasculine, and non-binary people who live in the West Midlands, but some do travel from Scotland. Wales and even as far afield as that there London.


The events allow like-minded gear heads to hang out in a safe and non-judgmental environment. Whilst we do have a dress code, there is absolutely no requirement to be wearing new or expensive gear, just that you have made an effort.


We usually hold 4 big events a year, in Birmingham. Full details of the schedule and how to get tickets can be found on the events page.


Where possible, BFM tries to utilise local or national LGBT+ businesses to support our events, from amazing cabaret performers to our back-end web, ticketing and printing solutions. We are committed to being an active part of supporting our community.

Meet the team

Nick

Nick is the president of BFM and has been with us from the start.

Krys

Krys handles most of the back office things, and is our safeguarding lead.

Gary

Your friendly neighbourhood person on the door and our socials person

Lee

Lee helps with the organisation of events and on the door

Tyler

Everyones favourite social butterfly helping the events to run smoothly

Alex

Our newest recruit, supporting us all to get the events running

Andy

The man with the bags, and helping to keep us all safe on the night

Jon

Another social butterfly to keeping the events running smoothly

Our events

BFM Social

our nights for you all to hang out and socialise with like minded gearheads. With Cabaret, a DJ and our infamous raffle

BFMX

Introduced in 2023, with a top DJ and play spaces. bfmx is an event for dance, drinking and dark spaces.

rainbow splatter edges, bright and colorful paint splash texture, perfect for pride month
rainbow splatter edges, bright and colorful paint splash texture, perfect for pride month

#birminghampride

BFM at Pride 2024

BFM will be entering the birmingham pride parade again this year.

meeting at 10.30am behind the central Library.

to register to walk with us; please click the link here

participating in the parade is free. We will meet after the parade at the Fountain Inn (outside the festival site). If you wish to enter the village or main festival site you will need a ticket from Birmingham pride.

dates for 2024

BFM Social

BFMX

Our usual mix of entertainment, music and madness

may bank holiday mayhem

May 4th 2024. 9.30pm until late

With Blanche & DJ Jord

our heavier night with a top dj and play spaces

Sold Out Stamp

BFMX

Feb 3rd 2024. 10pm until late

Sales Ended

OCtober

OCT 26th 2024. 9.30pm until late

BFMX

AUG 3rd 2024. 10pm until late

on sale soon

on sale soon

FAQS

I’m new to the fetish scence and nervous about attending

Honestly no need to worry, our team will offer you a warm welcome and if you would like, introduce you to some of the other friendly faces at the event.

Are you inclusive?

Yes. We use accessible venues for our events, and all men, those who identify as men and masc non-binary people are welcome. We have zero tolerance to all forms of discrimination

Do you allow walk-ins or on the door payments?

Tickets are usually in high demand, so we recommend purchase in advance. We allow walk-ins and card only payment on the door, up-to maximum venue capacity.

Is there a dress-code

Yes, we have a dress-code policy for admission, full details are on the dress-code page.

Dress-code

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We have an active private facebook group you are welcome to join and you can also follow us on twitter and Instagram. We post regular updates about events and it's a great space to meet like-minded friends.

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Want to email us with a question or get involved?