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LEATHER | RUBBER | SPORTS | SKIN | ANIMAL & MORE
A place for men from Birmingham, the Midlands and the rest of the country to meet in their gear.
We are an inclusive group of gear heads that hold social events for men, those who identify as men, transmasculine, and non-binary people who live in the West Midlands, but some do travel from Scotland. Wales and even as far afield as that there London.
The events allow like-minded gear heads to hang out in a safe and non-judgmental environment. Whilst we do have a dress code, there is absolutely no requirement to be wearing new or expensive gear, just that you have made an effort.
We usually hold 4 big events a year, in Birmingham. Full details of the schedule and how to get tickets can be found on the events page.
Where possible, BFM tries to utilise local or national LGBT+ businesses to support our events, from amazing cabaret performers to our back-end web, ticketing and printing solutions. We are committed to being an active part of supporting our community.
Nick
Nick is the president of BFM and has been with us from the start.
Lee
Lee helps with the organisation of events and on the door
Krys
Krys handles most of the back office things, and is our safeguarding lead.
Tyler
Everyones favourite social butterfly helping the events to run smoothly
Andy
The man with the bags, and helping to keep us all safe on the night
Gary
Your friendly neighbourhood person on the door and our socials person
Alex
Our newest recruit, supporting us all to get the events running
I’m new to the fetish scence and nervous about attending
Honestly no need to worry, our team will offer you a warm welcome and if you would like, introduce you to some of the other friendly faces at the event.
Are you inclusive?
Yes. We use accessible venues for our events, and all men, those who identify as men and masc non-binary people are welcome. We have zero tolerance to all forms of discrimination
Do you allow walk-ins or on the door payments?
Tickets are usually in high demand, so we recommend purchase in advance. We allow walk-ins and card only payment on the door, up-to maximum venue capacity.
Is there a dress-code
Yes, we have a dress-code policy for admission, full details are on the dress-code page.
Dress-code
